To Be Or Not To Be

Stacy Blemaster

To Be Or Not ​To Be: ​Shedding ​An As-If ​Personality

Meet Stacy

Stacy Blemaster grew up in Shaker ​Heights, Ohio. She received a BA from ​Brown University, where she majored in ​theater, and then went on to be licensed ​in counseling and human services, ​earning an MA from John Carroll ​University. She has two autistic sons and a ​daughter - all now adults. She resides in ​Placida, Florida, with her husband, Robert ​and their two Golden Retrievers, Libby and ​Lacey.

Stacy Blemaster

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To Be Or Not To Be

Maybe you want to be more than a mere player? Stacy spent the first half of her life ​acting because she thought it was what she had to do. But Stacy discovered that life ​is about more than acting. She had to unwind the two-dimensional life of her ​childhood by peeling away layers of a facade to reveal a three-dimensional world. ​This new world was full of feelings and nuances that made life worth living.


If you’re struggling with a mask you can’t take off, and have found that conventional ​methods like psychotherapy and medication have not worked for you, this book may ​be for you. Stacy’s story of genuine healing will encourage you on your own path ​towards authenticity.


To Be or Not to Be will show you that it is possible to overcome mental illness using ​unconventional methods, as Stacy did. Stacy’s story can help you devise a plan for ​your own journey to a three-dimensional life – starting today, right where you’re ​planted.

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